salaciousjade

There are many things this blog will explore but there will be two main themes; human sexuality and fashion. This blog is not intended to be blatantly pornographic but will include material that some may deem as indecent. For those that are offended by alternative lifestyles or for those that are not of legal age in their country to view material of a sexual & adult themed nature, please do the right thing and politely excuse yourself now. For the rest of us please, let me introduce myself. For the purposes of this blog my name is Paparazzi and my wife / life-partner is Jade. We are fashionistas, epicureans, and all around indulgent people. This blog will be my means of sharing in our exploits and explorations. Eat, drink, enjoy and make love.

Fashion, Fetish & Fetish Fashion

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There is an inextricable connection between the worlds of fetish and fashion; hence we have fetish fashion and those who have elevated there love of fashion to a fetish.  I have my fetishes, I am sure they will become apparent over the course of Salaciousjade’s existence and I love fashion.  In particular fashion that blurs the boundaries between styles, genres, gender etc.  This photo is from http://www.beautydelux.com

The key to executing what in my mind constitutes a successful edgy, blurring of the boundaries is the just that, the blurring.  When the various components become almost indistinguishable when the ensemble is viewed as a whole, like the amazing dish that was served to you at your favorite restaurant comprised of ten or fifteen ingredients.  You don’t taste the fennel or the lemon peel, you don’t taste the cumin or anise…you taste the dish and there is harmony between the ingredients.

Take the outfit in this photo.  This is what I see; the hat (Heather Huey), the veil (Maison Michel), the dress (Stella McCartney), the shoes (Christian Siriano) and the handbag\clutch (Alexander McQueen) all amazing and together they work very well.  The shoes with the studs laid on the inside of the heel, the handbag with the corset lacing element communicate the fetish.  The polka dots in the dress bring an element of classic 50’s pin up but the geometry of the curves take us into the modern.  A great hat and veil add dramatic effect.  In my mind this is where it should have stopped.  The harness (Fleet Ilya) and cuffs (The Leather Man) I am sure they are amazingly crafted products and likely effective for their intended purpose, though when applied here they serve no purpose other than distracting from the other excellent elements.

Take the shape and design of the harness, drop it down over the hips instead of wearing it above the waist and use it as the foundation for a skirt.  It is great, but it belongs on another outfit.  The dress is sleek while the cuffs bulky,  I can see the value of incorporating cuffs into this concept but another material choice, say rubber which generally does not carry so much bulk and can be shined to give a sleek effect.

Everything in this photo is beautiful.  But to do each element justice, they should be grouped better and displayed as components of two separate ensembles.  Eat, drink, enjoy & make love!

It’s my fault, and I love it. *Adut Content*

Insatiability.  Jade can seemingly go for no more than 18 hours without getting fucked before she begins her decent into madness.  It is a convenient fit, her and I as she craves it while I long to give it and know she gets it…from me or anyone else we approve of, it doesn’t matter so long as I know she is getting what she needs and wants.  Jade apologized to me the other day, “I am sorry you married such a whore” she said to me in a sultry voice with her trademark seductive siren look upon her face.  I smiled and replied simply “I made you the whore you are….things are as they should be.” with a smile.  We were the quintessential high school couple couple…I took her virginity, she took my heart in exchange and now we are what we always should have been.  Neither of us are sure the world is ready.  Eat, drink, enjoy & make love!

What We Drink

1)  Bourbon:  Pappy Van Winkle, Bulleit, Noah’s Mill or Maker’s Mark depending on availability, always a double neat.

2)  Vodka:  Ciroc, Tito’s, American Harvest or Pau depending on availability, on the rocks, 60/40 with San Pellegrino and a lemon\lime

3)  Champagne:   Veuve Clicquot, LaMarca (proseco); so cold it’s slushy

Avocado Tartare + Cilantro oil

I can’t eat avocados myself, something to do with the texture and having grown up under a butter avocado tree…BUT I will be making this for Jade someday. Eat, drink, enjoy & make love!

SABOR

Modern cuisine has a tendency to overwhelm.  It’s a highly complex and esoteric movement that attracts new ingredients, new techniques, and eccentric, ego-driven chefs who fancy themselves scientists.  The vast majority of human beings – myself included – are dumbfounded by the ability of these chefs to transform perfectly ordinary ingredients into such abstract, almost extraterrestrial forms.

Haute cuisine is so dissected and deconstructed these days, so removed from reality.  If you don’t believe me just walk into molecular gastronomist Wylie Dufresne‘s wd-50 and order an omelette.  You’ll probably get something foamy in a martini glass.

This is a stereotype, of course.  And although most stereotypes are rooted in a seed of truth, not all modern cuisine is as stuffy and pretentious as the critics make it out to be.  A number of those eccentric, ego-driven chefs I so graciously described above haven’t lost touch with reality – at…

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Quote: De Sade

beauty in depravity.

Thoughts of a Growing Sub

When she’s abandoned her moral center and teachings…when she’s cast aside her facade of propriety and lady-like demeanor…when I have so corrupted this fragile thing and brought out a writhing, mewling, bucking, wanton whore for my enjoyment and pleasure…..enticing from within this feral lioness…growling and scratching and biting…taking everything I dish out to her…..at that moment she is never more beautiful to me.

Donatien-Alphonse-François de Sade

I love this quote. It’s a wonderful representation of how a sadist feels when he plays with someone. It makes me squirm in excitement and heat up in all the right places! ❤

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The Waitress *Adult Content*

Our waitress is young, European, a dirty blonde and married.  The restaurant is hip and loud, the place blurs the line between indoor and outdoor seating.  The air is humid and fitting for the south east Asian cuisine being served.  She’s attentive, our waitress is.  Polite, quiet, demure and unobtrusively beautiful.  We’re eating with family but Jade’s attention is not on the conversation, her mind is set on our waitress and how well she serves.  Leaning over in her chair, her eyes set upon the serving girl she whispers in my ear “that’s my kind of woman,” then rights herself and brings her focus back to the gathering at hand.  The bottles of wine are now as empty as the plates at the end of our meal and the rest of our congregation departs for the comfort of their home and beds.  Jade and I linger for another drink or two at the table, watching, admiring and casually conversing with our server.  My wife excuses herself to the restroom as we are getting ready to go and much to my surprise slips her number to the waitress as she is closing up at the serving station.  Since then she’s been the focus of more than a few of our fantasies.  Here’s to hoping we get a call from her some day.  Eat, drink, enjoy & make love!

A Word of Caution

I do not believe it is uncommon for couples to fantasize about being with other people.  Less common may be those that explore this possibility.  Let this post serve as a word of caution to those considering the potential of their spouse or partner being with another but not yet having taken that leap in their relationship.  Know what you want and why you want it.  Communicate what you want and why you want it to your partner before anything is done that cannot be undone.  Be confident in yourself and your relationship.  While it can be extremely thrilling to think of the reality of such a fantasy coming to pass, the reality of dealing with the emotional fallout can be potentially devastating.  This is not something that should be done out of an act of desperation to save a failing relationship.  It is my belief that unless you are confident in yourself and confident in the foundation of your relationship, experimenting with this relatively common fantasy could be detrimental to your relationship and ultimately to you.  However, if you are confident in yourself and in your relationship then it can conversely be extremely inspiring, exciting and invigorating.  When in doubt, don’t act out.  Back burner the idea, come back to center in your relationship then revisit the idea…and in the mean time…Eat, drink, enjoy & make love!

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Glitter & Lace

She sent this to me while I was away at a conference. Eat, drink, enjoy & make love!

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A Confession to Jade *Adult Content*

I have known Jade for about 17 years now.  There have been many things, many experiences and many days in my life I have forgotten or fail to recall, the first time I laid eyes on her however, will never be one of them.  I was sitting with a childhood friend watching the morning and its inhabitants go by when I saw her.  “Who is that?” I asked of my friend, “Oh, that’s Jade” he replied and I thought to myself, ‘she might not know it yet, but there is a beautiful and uninhibited woman in there’.  I knew from that moment she was the one I wanted.  Now flash forward to today, we’ve spent about 4 of the 17 years we’ve known each other together, the other 13 were spent apart living our own lives while still loving each other.  Two years in the beginning and now two years reunited.  We’re coming into a period of insatiability in our relationship from a sexual standpoint and began sharing fantasies over text messages while I was out of the house today.  One thing led to another as they often do and I made a confession to her.  “I saw it written all over you the moment I laid eyes on you” I wrote to her “Is that fantasy or for real?” she asked in response to which  I answered “It’s the truth.”  She indicated I’d never told her that before and I said she was right, because until recently I was unsure as to how she would react.  Share often, openly and honestly.  Eat, drink, enjoy and make love!

Hello and Welcome

There are many things this blog will explore but there will be two main themes; human sexuality and fashion.  This blog is not intended to be blatantly pornographic but will include material that some may deem as indecent.  For those that are offended by alternative lifestyles or for those that are not of legal age in their country to view material of a sexual nature, please do the right thing and politely excuse yourself now.  For the rest of us please, let me introduce myself. For the purposes of this blog my name is Paparazzi and my wife is Jade.  We are fashionistas, epicureans, and all around indulgent people.  This blog will be my means of sharing in our exploits and explorations.  Eat, drink, enjoy and make love.

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