There are many things this blog will explore but there will be two main themes; human sexuality and fashion. This blog is not intended to be blatantly pornographic but will include material that some may deem as indecent. For those that are offended by alternative lifestyles or for those that are not of legal age in their country to view material of a sexual & adult themed nature, please do the right thing and politely excuse yourself now. For the rest of us please, let me introduce myself. For the purposes of this blog my name is Paparazzi and my wife / life-partner is Jade. We are fashionistas, epicureans, and all around indulgent people. This blog will be my means of sharing in our exploits and explorations. Eat, drink, enjoy and make love.

Tag: polyamory

Snack Time part 1 *Adult Content*

I dropped her off at 5:30pm.  She had a date with one of her “snacks”, I think she’s determined this place to be her favorite for her first dates as the staff recognized her from having been in a few weeks ago which gave us both a laugh.  She looked stunningly beautiful adorned in a very architectural, form fitting white strapless above the knee dress, black nail polish peeked out from the toes of her camel colored five inch heels which we refer to as her “trouble” heels.  Matching black polish coated her fingernails and her thumbs accented with a flat-back Swarovski crystal.

While I waited at home for her night to wind down, my imagination kept wandering back to the bar and the two of them.  I knew the bar was in a hotel, a very nice one at that and in my mind after a few drinks they head upstairs to a room where he pushed her down over the edge of the bed and she received her third ravaging of the day.  I knew this was not going to happen as we have our protocols in place for such a thing, regardless this is where my mind kept going back to and consequently Jade gave both her snack and I a raging erection.

A little background is due here I think.  This was something we decided we wanted to do one night about two years ago.  We had been at a fashion show / release party where on our way out, someone caught her eye and she excused herself to go speak with him a moment.  Jade is a shameless flirt, she knows it and she’s very good at it.  I don’t mind this at all as I think flirting is a good thing, it’s healthy and helps instill confidence in both parties involved.  Everyone likes to be flirted with, or should anyway.  What caught her eye initially was how the man was dressed.  Like me a bit heavier than most there, but carried himself with confidence and it showed in how he dressed himself.  Their initial conversation led to the four of us meeting at a near by bar after the party ended.  What we didn’t tell him and his roommate was that Jade was my wife, to them I was a life long friend that she had recently reestablished contact with (which is perfectly true, and legally we’re not actually married in the eyes of the state).  Watching her on the couch with these two men and seeing how they reacted to her gave me a thrill for so many reasons.  Ironically it was his friend that was much more aggressive in coming onto her and had the mental acuity to keep pace with her and challenge her on various topics of conversation.  All of the obvious signals were there and we spent the rest of the night bar hopping until there was no where left to hop.  Nothing else came of this encounter that night but it was the experience that flipped the switch for us.  Since then it’s been a wild exciting ride and everyone benefits!

At about 2am she was done and I drove down to pick her up, she had a smile on her face and that is what I love to see.  With that much time spent out together they obviously had a good time, we drove home and she gave me the highlights.  Completely incompatible!  Oh well, that is going to happen, so we spent the next several hours watching one of our favorite comedians, laughing and cuddling until about 5:00am.  Eat, drink, enjoy & make love!

It’s my fault, and I love it. *Adut Content*

Insatiability.  Jade can seemingly go for no more than 18 hours without getting fucked before she begins her decent into madness.  It is a convenient fit, her and I as she craves it while I long to give it and know she gets it…from me or anyone else we approve of, it doesn’t matter so long as I know she is getting what she needs and wants.  Jade apologized to me the other day, “I am sorry you married such a whore” she said to me in a sultry voice with her trademark seductive siren look upon her face.  I smiled and replied simply “I made you the whore you are….things are as they should be.” with a smile.  We were the quintessential high school couple couple…I took her virginity, she took my heart in exchange and now we are what we always should have been.  Neither of us are sure the world is ready.  Eat, drink, enjoy & make love!

A Word of Caution

I do not believe it is uncommon for couples to fantasize about being with other people.  Less common may be those that explore this possibility.  Let this post serve as a word of caution to those considering the potential of their spouse or partner being with another but not yet having taken that leap in their relationship.  Know what you want and why you want it.  Communicate what you want and why you want it to your partner before anything is done that cannot be undone.  Be confident in yourself and your relationship.  While it can be extremely thrilling to think of the reality of such a fantasy coming to pass, the reality of dealing with the emotional fallout can be potentially devastating.  This is not something that should be done out of an act of desperation to save a failing relationship.  It is my belief that unless you are confident in yourself and confident in the foundation of your relationship, experimenting with this relatively common fantasy could be detrimental to your relationship and ultimately to you.  However, if you are confident in yourself and in your relationship then it can conversely be extremely inspiring, exciting and invigorating.  When in doubt, don’t act out.  Back burner the idea, come back to center in your relationship then revisit the idea…and in the mean time…Eat, drink, enjoy & make love!

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